Sep 10 2008
Does a Date Need to Be Defined for it to Be a Date
How many times have you seen a TV show where a woman is debating on whether her meeting with a certain someone is a date or not? If you are like me, you have seen this plot way too many times. There is a reason that this plot keeps showing up. This happens everyday for people who are dating.
Most times the people involved with the date will not want to define it as suck for fear of rejection. I always believe that it is better for the heart and the mind to be upfront with all expectations on the date. If you think it is a date and the other person does not, someone is going to get hurt. Clarify if the get together that is going on is a date. This will save you much aggravation in the long run.