Oct 14 2008
Why I am Choosing to Wait
My boyfriend told me something yesterday that will have a great impact on our relationship. The company that he works for is completely dismantling their office in our area. This makes the idea that he will be able to come very bleak. We are going to have to look at this move to Atlanta as being permanent for now. This is a big blow, since I have already not seen him for 4 months. It is because of this that I did some thinking about our relationship and how much it meant to me. I looked at what I was giving up and how long I would wait for him. I also thought about what would happen if he never comes home from Atlanta.
I decided to tell him that I would wait and build on our relationship even if it is permanently long term. I asked him for his thoughts on the subject. I realized that if I walk away from this relationship, it will be one of the biggest mistakes of my life.