Dating With Kids

I came to a realization over the past week or so. I have been sitting around waiting for my life to happen. I had read so much about the Secret, that I feel under the delusion that all I had to do was picture what I want in my life. I believed that with the good positive thoughts that I would attain these things that they would happen. Thankfully, I woke up and smelled the coffee.

Life is not going to change unless I take the steps to change it. I still believe that I must have a positive image in my mind of me having the things that I desire. See, I do not think The Secret is a complete waste. I just think that the theory behind it needs to be tweaked.

I have decided that I need to start living my life the way that I want it to be. I need to take the actions and make the moves to get what I want out of life. This means that I have to live my life and stop waiting for it to happen.

It is amazing what this realization has done. I went out last night to see my friends at a local bar. I have gone to this bar off and on over the past few months. My usual would be to talk to my couple of friends when they were not on stage. After that, I would sit at a table by myself and have a couple of beers and leave early.

Last night, I actually really enjoyed myself. I let myself be outgoing and just do what I felt like doing. I did not worry about what time to get home. I did not worry about what other people were thinking. I am being the person that I want to be and having the life that I have dreamed of.