Jan
14
2009
We have become a society that has done away with most face to face forms of communication. Instead of walking over to a coworker’s office and having a conversation with them, we just send an email. The personal part of our interactions is gone. This is starting to become true in relationships as well.
There is a trend growing when it comes to dating. The use of text messaging to talk to the person that you are dating is on the rise. Many people use this as the number one way that they communicate with the person that they are dating. This is a very cold and distant way to have a relationship go.
Text messaging can come in handy when it comes to dating. I often use texts to talk to my boyfriend when my daughter is asleep. However, this should never be the only way that the two of you communicate.
Jan
12
2009
I am currently trying to plan my daughter’s second birthday. This is an exciting time for me. I am in conflict about how I should include my boyfriend in this event. My situation is much different from others. My boyfriend is still 800 miles away in Atlanta. This makes it difficult to include him in these other aspects of my life.
If he were not that far away, I do believe that it is important to include the person that you are dating in other parts of your life. I am still asking my boyfriend for his opinion of what I should do for my daughter’s birthday. If he were here, I would invite him and his son to the event. I believe that to truly date someone and build a relationship with them, you need to include them in your life.
Jan
11
2009
I am having one of those weekends. I feel like I should have never gotten out of bed this weekend. Of course my daughter would not have allowed this. She has been a bundle of energy. I am trying to stay positive, but I am very banged up and tired.
I have been battling a stomach virus since Friday. At first I thought it might have been my body paying me back for going out drinking Thursday night. Unfortunately, I have still been sick the last two days. That is not a hangover.
I was taking boxes down to the basement yesterday and my ankle buckled. I fell down the stairs going to our basement. I scraped up my elbow. I am sore along my entire left side. This was just not my weekend.
Jan
10
2009
I have run into more and more people cheating these days. Some of these people are ones that I would never think of doing this. As I have seen this epidemic of cheating grow, it has made me ask some questions. The first one that comes to mind is why do people cheat?
There are those people who are no longer in love with the person they are with. It is this lack of love that causes them to look for someone to love.
Some cheat because they are bored. This does not mean that they do not love their partner. They are looking for excitement in their life.
Then there are the other people that I truly believe have no idea why they are cheating. No matter which way you slice it, cheating is not the way to go.
Jan
09
2009
Many people have decided that this is the year that they will make the changes that they have always wanted. The end result is that they hope to have a new you. This is a great endeavor to undertake. It is always in our best interest to improve ourselves. This can help you when it comes to your relationships.
When we strive to be the best person that we can be on the inside, there is a vibe that our outside sends out. This is what helps us to find the right people to date. When you are the person that you want to be, you will be more likely to meet the person that you want to date. It is really that simple.